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"The thought of his being treated as a female for almost the first thirty years of his life boggles my mind. I cannot conceive of it. I wonder he survived those years, although I can understand the unhappiness, anger, loneliness, alienation and frustration he suffered without knowing its cause." — Betty, 2004

"...it's usually the thing that you're most ashamed of, the weakest part of you, the poorest part, which is where you'll find your power and where you'll find your ability to serve others. Which is where you'll find your joy." — Rachael Wallbank, 2003

"...my husband has transsexualism. To be perfectly honest I forget this a lot of the time, I rarely think about it now, in the same way that I rarely stop to notice his hazel eyes anymore (though he has very nice eyes)." — Liz, 2003

"Mark has seen this world from a perspective that only a gifted minority have, and for me to be able to share a life with a man such as Mark is beyond words." — Julie, 2003

"Transition is ultimately a positive experience. It enables the person you love to be truly happy, (or at least happier than they were!). In the end, they will seem more like themselves than ever before." — Alison, 2003

"Hormones may go some way to modifying your body… the rest will take your time and effort. Your relationship with yourself, your strength and courage, your honour and your capacity for joy and happiness are all part of being a man too." — Vikki Sinnott, 2002

"I believe any transsexual is a courageous, strong and amazing being for living their life as they do and defying the ignorance and discrimination of our world. It is people like you who entrust a sense of hope for the future, for our children and theirs." — Annette, 2001

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"People with transsexualism usually recognise their true selves from a very young age. They may try to explain their feelings but seldom are they heeded. People sometimes grow angry or dismiss the feelings as a phase which will pass. But transsexualism is for life and those with the condition cannot alter their conviction. People who experience transsexualism deserve acceptance and support along the road they have been compelled by Nature to travel." — Betty, 2003

"My partner and I have been together for approximately six and a half years now and within this relationship I am still continually inspired and challenged to revisit and question my beliefs and ideas about the world within which we live." — Michael, 2002

"The best part about the transition is that Jamie is following his heart, despite the hurdles that he faced with, he has found strength in his adversity. What more could I ask for in a partner?" — Lisa, 2002

"Before meeting my first female-to-male transsexual all kinds of ideas were running through my head. For some reason I expected the patients to be very unusual. I was surprised to find them pleasant to talk to, highly motivated, of normal intelligence and well presented - quite a contrast to the anecdotal stories I had heard. " — Dr Huntersmith, 2002

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