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Everyone has an opinion

Supported and backed by their creed

The belief they have isn’t right or wrong

An open mind is all they need

 

I am not trying to change you or make you agree

Nor change the way that you think

I just need a little acceptance from you

Cause I have that right to be me

 

For years my life was a struggle

I would pray every night make me whole

My gender didn’t match my body

I was a man though it didn’t really show

 

Twenty-six years of frustration

The solution finally came

The ball was now in my court

A decision had to be made

 

I weighed out all of my options

I considered the good and the bad

For two years I did nothing

In fear of losing all that I had

 

I was afraid that I’d lose my family

Scared no one would understand

There was so much I’d have to sacrifice

If I was to live as a man

 

The day had come when I made my choice

I chose to do this for me

I knew that I had to take this risk

If I ever wanted to live free

 

So many people placed judgment

Very few stood by my side

I realized that I had to put myself first

If not I’d be living a lie

 

Today I can walk out in public

As a man inside and out

You don’t have to agree with my life

Cause that’s not what my life is about

 

I can truly say that I’m happy

This is a choice I don’t regret

Though I lost a lot through this process

I finally found my self respect!

Citation — Ream, K. (2005). Becoming Whole. Torque, 5(4), August 2005.

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