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Ashley

"Telling my partner of my TS was hard, I thought well if she really knows me and has really listened to what I have said in the past, she should have some idea. After we spoke about it and she had some time to think, she had to admit that some part of her always knew.

So to me there was already some level of acceptance before I told her anyway. This made things a bit easier. While she knew how I felt, she had no idea what I had planned to do about it, or what options were available to me. As soon as she found out about the hormones & chest surgery she knew I would be going down that path. From there, well we haven't got that far yet; this process is one step at a time.

She knows that the only part of me that will change is my physical aspect; mentally I am still the same person.

The only thing that will change that's not physical, is my own personal confidence, which has already changed significantly.

Ashley, Melbourne, Australia 2003

Michael and Jack

"I was absorbed within that beautiful thing which is falling in love, wanting to spend every waking moment with the person I was in love with, coupled with a new 'identity crisis' of my own. I just didn't have the energy, or the patience, to be dealing with negative criticism and ignorant opinions about what I was doing with my life.

In many ways, I went through my own period of "transition" over the next few years, with the greatest impetus to my transformation being the support and encouragement I received from my partner.

My partner and I have been together for approximately six and a half years now and within this relationship I am still continually inspired and challenged to revisit and question my beliefs and ideas about the world within which we live.

Michael, Sydney, Australia 2002

Elizabeth

"Yes, he looks different now than when we met - but hey so do I.

Wrinkles! Cellulite! Stretchmarks! I've been pregnant twice and looked like a cartoon character. He loved me through it all, despite it all and because of it all.

He loves me on the inside, more now than when we met."

Liz, Sydney Australia 2003

Destiny

"Fortunately, my partner is amazing and you can't put a stop to destiny. We actually met working together in a nursing home, and we fell in love. That's life. He's an ftm, and so what??? That's life."

Annette, Blue Mountains, Australia 2003

Citation — Partners (2004). Partners. Stand By Your Man, 2003.

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